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How to deal with stage fright

Алексей Конобеев

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Do you ever feel nervous before speaking in public? Of course by the virtue of our profession we have to do it every day, but still I've met many excellent teachers who are extremely reluctant to speak at a conference or address an audience outside their classroom. I remember a couple of years ago at a conference in Murmansk a wonderful teacher who had taken part in an experiment to improve the quality of textbooks and who had done an excellent job, got so nervous just before she was to speak, that her blood pressure level rose dramatically and she had to stop in mid-sentence and go and take her medicine. I called her in the end of the day just to make sure she had got home safely and did not need any help, and she was upset that she had not made her speech as intended.

So why do we fail to speak in public sometimes? The reason is simple, it is called "stage fright". Speaking in class is different from speaking to general public or a professional audience because in these cases we are outside our habitual environment.

Although I give lectures and workshops in many different regions to lots of teachers, I get stage fright as well. So let me share some ways of overcoming it, perhaps you will find some of them useful.

First of all, you can never know if you will go down with the audience well. This idea makes many people extremely worried, although, in fact, the solution is quite simple. Any audience is there to listen to something new. Therefore if when you only begin your lecture/presentation/speech ask the people what they know what what they feel will be interesting for them to hear, it will help you a lot. In this way you'll be able to make your information relevant for the audience and ensure that people listen to you. In this way there is no need to fear that you will not be interesting to the audience.

Which brings up another point. Sometimes, no matter how interesting the speech is, it becomes boring very quickly. The reason, again, is simple: the speech is too quiet and monotonous. If you cannot speek loudly, why not come closer to the people? And intonations should not be too "academic": after all, the whole thing is about people enjoying listening to you, not about you enjoying speaking. I've heard several very clever and interesting people who, when they address an audience, immediately "put on an academic hat" and begin speaking as if they were addressing students, and not very clever students at that. They tend to forget that they are talking to professionals who can either help them by sharing their own experience, answering questions, agreeing or disagreeing with the speaker, but it will be a lively talk. Hardly anyone needs lecturing these days, but a conversation always works. Your lecture is worth only as much as how interesting it is for the people and how easy it is to hear you. So there i sno need to fear that you will lose the audience in the middle of your speech.

Some speakers get stage fright because they feel that they are not experienced enough or they don't feel that what they have to say has much value for the audience. Again, we have two simple solutions fo rthis problem. Solution 1: if you feel that you don't know what to say on this topic, choose another topic where you do know what to say. Solution 2: if you are sharing your own experience, it is always interesting. Just remember that your experience and ideas are worth no less than someone else's, and no one can tell about your experience better than you. I remember one of the times when I was working as an interpreter at a big economic forum. Most of th eforum perticipants were governors from different regions of Russia, including the mayor of moscow and I needed to translate what was being said to a British millionnaire and then translate his speech to the entire audience. Although this was by far not my first experience of simultaneous translation at important events, for some reason I felt nervous before going on the stage. But then I said to myself that although it's very likely that there are people in the hall who speak excellent English, I am still a professional interpreter and no one among those present would be able to do my job better than myself. To remind myself of my qualification was enough to drive away the stage fright.

Also, some of us have a fear that something will go wrong with the technical equipment, that the computer won't start, or the data projector will break down or there will be no sound from the speakers. Well, such things do happen. Therefore it is always a good idea to have some alternative variants of delivering a presentation. You can print out the handouts, you can ask the public to share their ideas and experience, you can do all sorts of content-related activities that we do in our classrooms every day. If you are prepared to be flexible, you needn't fear failures of technical equipment.

And finally, some people are afraid of not being able to answer some of the questions at once. In fact, there is nothing wrong with not knowing answers to each and every questions. Some questions do not have an answer. The answer to some questions is the short and simple "no". And when someone asks a question which you cannot even understand there is nothing wrong with asking this person to paraphrase the question, with asking experienced teachers among the audience if they have ever encountered similar problems and how they deal with them. You'll be surprised to see how many solutions will be offered immediately, and there is really no need to be afriad of questions because there are always many people around who want to help you.

These are just a few simple things, but I hope that they will help you to deal with stage fright if ever you get any.



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Nice topic to discuss. I still remember a conference in Sochi in 2006 for teachers from diff corners of our large country. The event was devoted to the promotion of Spotlight (then a new one ). The whole thing was held at a nice hotel. it was a three-day occasion for about 100 participants. Leading lecturers were English - professional lecturers and authors of the book. Among russian ones were Afanasieva, Vaulina and other authors, people with considerable experience in perfoming for large audiences (and sophisticated at that). English lecturers were absolutely admirable - the English lecturers used all possible techniques to hold our attention - clever structuring of the talk,interesting facts, lively examples, comparisons, visio/audio aids saying nothing about sparkling humor. the audience was engaged is nothing to say. we were simply clued to the speakers, were were rocking with laughter we answered provoking questions, we caught new jokes. Yeah, the people were aces in delivering talks.

Well, this is kind of background.

Now two specialities))

A part of the time of the conference was supposed to be given to common teachers piloting the new book to share experience. Turn came to a nice middle-aged woman. She took her place in front of us and opened her mouth to say the first word. We were ready to listen whatever she was going to say. But to the woman happened what you call a fit of stage fight - the woman talked russian so i'll switch to the language - только начиная говорить по теме, она начинала тут же истерично голосить"Нет, нет,нет, не могу, не могу" закрывала лицо руками и ...с ней происходило, что-то ужасное. Несколько секунд постоит, начинает еще раз, и тоже самое - всхлипы и крики"нет,нет,нет" Добрая женщина из нашего первого ряда, вышла и обняла ее., погладила как маленькую, сказала, что мы здесь все сами такие. Вроде, все ок. Но и в третий и четвертый раз случилось тоже.попыток не менее шести. Мы получили целое представление, очень поучительное. Причем мнения разделились, кто считал, что она просто неумная (это эвфемизм), кто сочувствовал. но выводы сделали все, что выступить так как это делали англичане, надо пройти через серьезную учебу, тренировки, и длительный опыт, так как надо сказать, всем русским было ооооочень далеко до них (даже опытным авторам)

Second, the participant of this story was me, but still as a listener. A Russian young man, some professional in the area too, from some Moscow university, was to give a talk on a student's portfolio, quite a fresh topic at that time. My director was proud to know Alexey (the young man's name) personally.Well I have to say a couple of words about his appearence 'cuz it is very important to the picture. It was a typical Muscovite man, affected, a bit womanish in the way he talked and moved. He had a choice to speak Russian or English. My director begged him to speak Еnglish. I was in the second row, that is in everybody's view. He started. He used so pathetic intonation!as if he was reading a poem about love, every time he said "poortfooliiooo" he looked heavenward.Next to me was sitting a remarkable woman as if from soviet times, big- breasted, the same in size hairdo, brightly blue eyelids overtly far from the "topic" ,natrurally, she started to fall asleep.The rest were politely though somewhat surprised listening to the nightingale-like lecturer. The situation was really comic, Understandably, quite an awful thing happened to me - fits of uncontrolled laughter suffocated me every time he said "portfolio" and he repeated the word all the time. I really went off into hysterics. I could do nothing but hold my mouth tightly. I wished the ground would swallow me up. To leave the place in this state meant to expose my state to everybody, My collegue next to me was awfully embarassed not less than me, with shaking hands she gave me a visit card to distract my mind by repeating a tel number on it but it helped for seconds. It was a torture.

Conclusion - make sure that the way you speak and behave is adequate to the content of your speech.

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